Pat Parker: For The White Person Who Wants To Know How To Be My Friend

The first thing you do is to forget that I'm black.
Second, you must never forget that I'm black.

You should be able to dig Aretha,
but don't play her every time I come over.
And if you decide to play Beethoven- don't tell me
his life story. They make us take music appreciation, too.

Eat soul food if you like it, but don't expect me
to locate your restaurants
or cook it for you.

And if some Black person insults you,
mugs you, rapes your sister, rapes you,
rips your house or is just being an ass-
please, do not apologize to me
for wanting to do them bodily harm.
It makes me wonder if you're foolish.

And even if you really believe Blacks are better lovers than
whites- don't tell me. I start thinking of charging stud fees.

In other words- if you really want to be my friend- don't
make a labor of it. I'm lazy. Remember.